My Brother's Keeper: What the Social Sciences Do (and Don't) Tell Us About Masculinity - Softcover

"Readers familiar with Gender and Grace will recognize Van Leeuwen's seasoned, balanced and original voice as she brings her theological and interdisciplinary expertise to vexed questions surrounding men, masculinity and gender roles. At once informative and provocative, My Brother's Keeper is another substantial contribution to contemporary Christian scholarly discussions on these crucial topics." (Christine Firer Hinze, Associate Professor of Christian Ethics, Marquette University)

"As a woman, a family therapist, and a supervisor and trainer of family therapists, I welcome My Brother's Keeper as an important contribution to understanding the dynamics of the development of boys and men. All too often, therapists see families where the absence of fathers seriously affects the lives of children. All too often, marriage relationships suffer or end because of gender differences and a failure to understand each other's needs. There have been many helpful books written for women in this search for gender reconciliation, but little for men. In My Brother's Keeper, Van Leeuwen's scholarly research and readable prose will help all of us--men and women alike--to better appreciate the unique challenges faced by our brothers in the communities of family, work and faith." (Diane Marshall, Registered Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Director, The Institute of Family Living)

"In this well-wrought argument, Mary Stewart Van Leeuwen combines scholarly insight with a practical agenda for a 'third way' approach to resolving the tired dichotomies of gender stereotypes. A challenging and illuminating contribution to the debate over men's and women's work and family roles." (Barbara Dafoe Whitehead, Ph.D., Co-director, The National Marriage Project, Rutgers University)

"A readable and intelligent examination of masculinity and family life from a psychologist and Christian theologian. Few authors are as comfortable with the range of disciplines reflected in this wise and learned book." (William J. Doherty, Ph.D., Professor, Family Social Science Department, University of Minnesota)

"My Brother's Keeper is the best theological statement on masculinity presently available. It is also the most comprehensive review and critique of what the social sciences say about men. It is a beautifully written and wonderfully balanced work." (Don Browning, coauthor of From Culture Wars to Common Ground: Religion and the American Family Debate)

"My Brother's Keeper is an excellent book on an important and timely topic. While it contains many scholarly citations supporting the arguments given, due to its conversational style and timely examples it is a delight to read. Although focused upon what the social sciences tell us about masculinity, the book is also biblically and theologically informed, resulting in an integrated understanding of Christian manhood. I look forward to using My Brother's Keeper in my course on men's ministry. This book is must reading for any pastor, church worker or Christian layperson struggling to understand the meaning of masculinity in contemporary society." (Jack Balswick, Professor of Sociology and Family Development, Fuller School of Psychology)

"Mary Stewart Van Leeuwen is 'trying to understand men.' So are many of us men. In this work of sweeping scholarship and faith-fueled science writing, she offers an appealing vision for twenty-first-century men (and women). A fascinating, provocative and important contribution to our understanding of men and gender." (David G. Myers, Hope College, author of The American Paradox: Spiritual Hunger in an Age of Plenty)